SLR Friends of the Hyland

SLR Friends of the Hyland

Monday, August 12, 2013


Jeff, Virgil, Joanne, Anne and Susan at the Village Room Aug11, 2013.

"Unfinished Song" is a delightful film about the potential influence of music in our lives, the enlivening effect music can have on the elderly, and how we choose to relate to others. 

Arthur, the main male protagonist, is a grouchy, withdrawn individual. He ridicules his wife's music group, and while he can see the joy she derives from singing with others, he refuses to participate. However, when Arthur's wife dies, Arthur has a change of heart. He experiences how isolated he has become, and he seeks out the very activity he once shunned. Through his participation in music, Arthur begins to open himself to others, and to love. He begins to make connections with his family, such as his son, and he begins to connect with others --  his music teacher and the choir members. 

Our SLR Friends of the Hyland gathering on Aug 11, rated this file 3.5-4.5 (out of 5). It is a light, heart-warming film, and perfect for a Sunday afternoon.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

At Any Price

At Any Price is a film which encourages discussion about a variety of topics -- from the condition of our farming communities today to the kind of ethical choices we each have to make throughout our lives. The setting of the film is a farming community in the US where Henry, the main protagonist, is a seed salesman. Henry is also a farmer trying to expand his property holdings and he is willing to acquire land in any way available to him -- sometimes in unscrupulous ways.

The main characters of the film struggle with ethical issues. You get a sense of who they are by the choices they make, particularly the choices made in crisis situations. Holding a position of control over all the main characters is the seed company which provides genetically modified seed to the farmers. The seed company "controls life" in many ways -- genetically and otherwise. One senses the farming communities of the past have been destroyed by these modern seed companies. Communities of farmers no longer work together for their mutual survival, such as helping each other during harvest time, instead farmers are in competition with each other for their very survival.

As we are introduced to each character, we come to know them by the choices they make. Many of the choices they make are disappointing, some choices flout the law. Everyone seems locked into a way of life different from that of the past -- where each individual used to be very much a part of a larger, supportive community. In present times, it's everyone out for him or herself. We are shown how each character survives by controlling others – Henry gains control of his son by helping him commit a crime, Henry’s wife gains control over Henry by learning the details about the death of a young man, and a young farmer who lost his living, gains control over Henry by threatening him with the loss of all his assets.  

One senses only two individuals escape the confining and unscrupulous group of characters depicted in the film: Henry’s son Grant, who is off climbing mountains in South America, and Dean's girlfriend who leaves for "the West." Both of these characters are depicted as having an innate sense of “right” and “wrong”, and they leave the farming community to protect this precious part of themselves. In a postcard home to his parents, Grant writes about his experience of being on a mountain top, “this must be what God feels like!” And Dean’s girlfriend, who has been ill-treated by both her parents, makes it clear she does not deserve to be ill-treated by her boyfriend Dean. She chooses, instead, to seek out another type of life.  

Whether or not one one likes At Any Price, it is a great one for fostering discussion. The SLR Friends of the Hyland had a lively talk after the film, and few laughs as well. Sitting out on the Wortley Roadhouse patio after the film, was a wonderful way to spend the afternoon.  Hope you can join us next time.
Joanne.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Love, Marilyn




Love Marilyn is a documentary based on recently discovered diaries and letters of Marilyn Monroe written throughout her career.  Her writings poignantly reflected her personal struggle and growth through adversity, both self made, and those imposed by society and the film industry of the time. 

Many actors do an amazing job reading selections from the documents and bringing them to life.  The readings are interspersed with historical film clips and interviews with surviving colleagues. The result was a sympathetic portrayal and we agreed we learned a great deal about her ambitions, challenges and self-doubts.  She benefited from her sexual image, but was also stereotyped and imprisoned by it.  Directors and producers refused take her dramatic talents or ambitions seriously.   She struggled to move beyond the sexpot image.  We discussed the unjust sexism of that time and how she both developed and was stunted by her public persona. 

We also discussed how an early life of being bounced from one foster home to another contributed to her lack of confidence and insecurities.  Finally, we thought that writing the extensive diaries and notes provided an outlet for her to escape the frustrations of her work and to validate herself.   She seems to have found peace at the end.  She was released from the limitations imposed on her by the film making industry.  The last contract she signed before her death was worth millions; finally, a recognition of her true value, the true worth she so valiantly fought for.

We enjoyed the film and found the technique of having different readers for different portions of the diaries to be effective.  We gave it an average rating of 3.5 (out of 5). 

Roslyn Moorhead

Saturday, April 20, 2013

Quartet



It was generally agreed, in the group, that Quartet is a fun film to see. A score of 4-5, said most people. The setting is in a retirement home for professional musicians, just weeks before a concert which will be put on by the residents. The proceeds from the concert are earmarked for helping to offset the cost of upkeep for their lovely home in the country.

The supporting actors in the film are all professional musicians, and this provides authenticity to the notion these people are retired musicians. You know the actors are playing the instruments in the film. Further, the music in Quartet, becomes akin to another character. Music is not just background dressing, it takes on a dominant role in the story.

Losing one's abilities, with age, is always a concern. This theme is explored in a sensitive manner, and sometimes, in a humorous way. The prospect of performing enlivens all the residents of the retirement home in the film -- those mentally intact, and those dealing with the ebb and flow of dementia. And in one scene, one is reminded of how much the elderly can still offer the youth of their day.

We are encouraged to celebrate the gifts of those nearing the end of life, and remember that some day soon, it will be you and I.

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Life of Pi

Everyone was impressed by the film Life of Pi. The general consensus was, it's a 5 (scale of 0-5). The photography and digital imaging is amazing. You would swear Pi is in that boat with the Bengal tiger.

The film is all about stories. The stories presented by religions (Christianity, Buddhism and Islam), and the 2 stories told by Pi about his adventure on the ocean. Pi's spiritual journey is at the heart of the film. He begins his spiritual education on land by reading key works which delve into an exploration of the inner world which exists within each of us. He also listens closely to stories told by his mother and other teachers. He is then tested on the ocean. It is on the ocean, adrift in a boat shared with a tiger, that he experiences complete surrender and acceptance. He has an experience of the Devine.

When Pi survives the ocean journey, and rejoins civilization, we are confronted with the 2 stories he tells about his adventure. We wonder which story is the true one? Are they both true? Whatever the answer, we begin to realize how we humans love our stories. And in this case, through our "suspension of disbelief," we are allowed to experience a wonderful adventure which gives us a greater understanding of the inner Life of Pi.

Next film dates:
April 14, 2013.
May 5, 2013 (to avoid Mother's Day on the 12th).
See you there!

Sunday, February 10, 2013


Well the reviews were mixed today after seeing the film Barbara. The rating by the group ranged from 2.5 - 4 (scale 0 - 5). Some said it was tedious and bleak, others stated it showed the main character's redemption of spirit by sacrificing her own freedom for that of another. The ending struck a hopeful note, but upon reflection one wonders what will happen to Barbara now, after her rebellious actions. It was mentioned, the Berlin wall was to fall in 1989, and Barbara would have her freedom after all.

The next two film dates are March 10 and April 14, for the first matinee film of the day. I will endeavor to provide some warning of the upcoming date, via email, and a link to the Hyland website, so you can take a look at the film we plan to view. See you next month!

Thursday, February 7, 2013

We will be meeting Feb 10, 2013 at 12:45 pm to watch "Barbara" at the Hyland Cinema. It is a German film set in 1980. See you all there!